Platonic Relationship

Platonic relationship (Friends) – the kind of relationship devoid of physical desire or sensual feelings is the basis of all kinds of relationships. Family relationship, also stems from this kind of relationship as parents first meet as friends, before their offspring emanate. Today, we will be having Mr Ikulamberu Ayotunde. A Pharmacologist, the Initiator of SPELL&THRILL! and the President of Educand Education Initiative (EEI), to speak with us on this kind of relationship. 

Enjoy the ride as it will be worth the while.

Mr Ikulamberu.

ARKore Writes: Based on your belief in being blessed with "The gift of Men", what is your view or philosophy on platonic relationship and what differentiates it (if any) from other kind of relationships?

Mr Ikulamberu: I have a firm belief in the reality that we as humans grow or decline by association. God blesses men but not directly. He does so through men. Hence, when we honour men, not taking our budding and established relationships for granted, we thrive and eventually make the best of our endeavours. Many of these relationships are platonic which usually requires deep commitment from both parties. The high point of many of these positive life changing relationships need to be based on selfless components. The goal of all humans should be to identify such strategic relationships, broker them, nurture and keep them by every means possible.

To have committed friendships and friends, one must first show himself friendly and committed. We as humans project and reflect the state of our mind knowingly and majority of the time unknowingly. 

ARKore Writes: A lot of views and principles, about how keeping friends is not worth the risk and trusting them is a dangerous adventure. What can you say about this notion based on how you've benefited from Platonic relationships?

Mr Ikulamberu: Building and nurturing enviable friendship is very much worth one's while. The Bible expressly gives us guidelines about how to choose our friends. Creating milieux for friendships and profitable association is definitely worth it. These friendships will not thrive without the elements of trust, selflessness and deep commitment. I for one love to boast about the longevity of the friendships and association that I am into. If you ask me, it's been worth the risk. We however need to be very circumspect.

ARKore Writes: How can Platonic relationships be built and sustained in this present world of confusion and all?

Mr Ikulamberu: We all need to have strong values to live by. Being chaste has become a herculean task as the years roll by. However, with both parties being true to themselves, shunning all forms of profanity and suggestive sexual innuendos, platonic relationships can still work even in the times that we are in.

ARKore Writes: Make a shout out.

Mr Ikulamberu: My shout out goes to my wife, QT and everyone out there who has explored and is still exploring the great, deep and unfathomable benefits of the Gift of Men.

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